Ageing

Just had a conversation with a friend about whether we should leave the place that we stayed for 5 years, or shall we leave?

me:"Why do you want to leave?"
X: "Because i can't forsee any changes if i stay back for another 2-5 years in this place..."
me:"I agree, what do you think of moving away from your comfort zone?"
X: " The most difficult thing is for me to start all over again, eg,to introduce myself 100 times to 100 strangers, how tiring.."

I agree so much with what X said. 5 years ago, i will be happily move to any place, happily introduce myself to a total stranger. I can't believe what time has done to me. Now, i feel reluctant to get to know a total stranger, it is just too tiring. Is it just me, or it is the same for everyone else?

Imperfection rules

I used to be very proud of myself to be able to correct other's mistake, especially those on kids. I thought their colouring must be perfectly within the line, their drawing must be decent, and their art production mustn't have any flaws. But after all these years, I realise that it was the imperfections that are making their colouring, drawing and art production valuable.

All in all, beauty is always in the eye of beholder.Now, I learn to appreciate a different kind of beauty.

Just Filling

Now I can say, "pewl, it is just fillings."

I hope i can keep saying that and not, " oh my god, what happen to the fillings."