Birthday

It is chasm to leap from 24 to 25.

Being 25,
you can rent a car by paying proprotionately less insurance fee,
you get the license to register as a Dr. ,
you get to earn money,

But,
you have to be more independant,
you have just permitted your hormone to slow down their activity and started to produce wrinkles,
you have to start to live on your own feet now,

but i remember someone at his 60's told me that he doesn't want to go back to his 20's because he was a fool. He said people get wise when they age. In fact, i do agree with him, you have to make enough mistakes to know what is right for you, and how to avoid repeating the mistake.

So, i guess i should learn to appreciate being 25 despite the fear of the undecided and uncertain future.

Happy Birthday.

To my grandfather whom just passed away 3 days ago, I wish you have a peaceful life in heaven.

Revenge

The whole plan sounds like a revenge.

I can no longer differentiate the truth from the false.

Well, you just can't please everyone, live with it.

Murphy's Law

Murphy's Law says "Whatever can go wrong will go wrong, and at the worst possible time" (Wikipedia)

I am not someone who believe in destiny, fate or etc. However, there is always some day in life that when you started to do something wrong, you will carry on the momentum to do something even worst. I don't have any logical reason for the phenomenon, because you just can't explain the aetiology.

Like what my friend said "I have got a dental mother in school and another fussy mother at home", but both of them do not have any relationship with me. The only thing is they share the common interest-to pick on me.

生不如死

当一个生不如死的人过世的时候，
我们应该欢呼，还是哀悼？

界线

世界越来越大越文明，
医学界的发现，可以吊命的药，等等等等，
人的生命也越来越长，可是人类的生活素质有变好吗？

这是一个很难回答的问题，见人见见仁见智吧。
我就觉的与其增长繁脑的人生，还不如过着有限的快乐人生。

就那那个需要换心脏博动器的病人来说，
她五十岁， 八十公斤， 剩下半张嘴的牙齿，
她还有三天就要动手术，
她每天吃的药有上十种，
她从门诊进来的时候，需要一个看护拿着一个外接心脏博动器，陪着她一起来的。

当我对他说，我会帮你把整嘴的牙齿拔掉，
她留下眼泪了。
请问，这是谁的错？
政府的错吗？因为他们想让人民可以保留他们的牙齿一辈子？
病人的错吗？因为她没有好好照顾身体？
上天的错吗？因为他没有给她一颗健康的心？
我的错吗？因为我要拔她地牙？？

每一天都有我不懂得回答的问题，
工作与情感的界线在哪里？

A learning lesson

谢谢你，大小姐
今天，你教会我很多事情。

１）在问别人的名字的同时，对那一个人说，我一定会忘记你的名字。 请问，你想要什么回应？
－－原来这真的很伤人。

２）在教别人的时候，要用教人的语气；用责备的语气，别人是不会服你的。
－－原来，学生真的不好当。
－－要学会教人才是真正有本事。
－－还没学会当医生前，要学会做人。

３）不好听的话是会影响别人一天的情绪，也只会让人决得你很讨厌。
－－因为真正有本事的人知道这其中的道理，不会随便说会伤害别人的话。要谨慎的说话，要三思而后行，世界就是那末现实。

大小姐， 我会忍的， 再三个星期，我就永远不要与你打交道。 这三星期，你的身份还是在我之上，我还是会对你恭恭敬敬的。 但，请你记得，我不是怕你，我只是不想浪费太多时间在你身上。